A: I am sorry, I do not predict the future. But you do determine your own future. And what you put out is what you get back. So what you must begin becoming aware of is what kinds of messages you are sending out, both verbal and nonverbal.
There is work required before a marriage, and much more work after the marriage. The process of relating requires an amazing amount of skill. Skills that we all possess or can develop, quite naturally or with a little practice.
At times you must compromise, at other times negotiate, influence, persuade, listen, sympathize, empathize, share, give each other space, and I could go on and on and still only touch the tip of the iceberg.
Now with your question, either there is some doubt, or perhaps a lack of clarity of the information you already have. Perhaps if you search within, the answer is already there. Perhaps, there is some hesitation in knowing the answer. The past does not equal the future. Yet in each moment you can influence it tremendously. So now the question to you is, "Which way would you like to influence your future?"
Good luck and congratulations either way!
-Oz
